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Don Boivin's avatar

This is so beautiful and beautifully written, Justyna! Your voice is quite reminiscent of John O'Donohue in fact. Anam Cara is a book I just love spending time in.

Let's see, some lines I really liked or that struck me. When you started a paragraph with, "On my desk, I keep two large stones..." I had to laugh; I was immediately reminded of Thoreau. Do you know the passage? "I had three pieces of limestone on my desk..." Of course it ends quite differently! 😆

I loved this line: "To hold a stone is to hold a piece of the earth’s ancient story, a fragment of a mountain that once kissed the sky and now lies cradled in the palm." It's always good to remember that stones are not so different from people; changing all the time.

And this: "While humans perceive time as a progression toward an end, stones remain untouched by this awareness, dwelling in what might be described as "geological time"—a deeper, slow, ancient rhythm that brushes against eternity." I think this is very sad for humans, but solvable! We just need to retrain ourselves NOT to see time as a progression toward an end. If we tell a different story, the stone's story—that we are also fragments of an ancient history, a never-ending history—perhaps we won't be so attached to these 5'-8"-tall oblong bits of ancient stone that look so pretty we want to defy nature and keep them just as they are forever! (In Thoreau's story, he ends up tossing his bits of limestone out the door. Perhaps there is a good metaphor for us there!)

Thank you so much for quoting me in your essay, Justyna. It's a true honor! 🙏💚

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Peter Webb's avatar

I have many different stone friends, each with a different story; all born of the same mother Earth. They have accompanied me through many phases and walks; I regularly return them to nature as part of my own passage through life. When I assumed sharing stories and teaching others, my initial inner courage was held together in my hand, accompanied by a stone while words formed in my mouth through feelings. Their constancy helps me find and remember my own, even though we know it only momentarily. To be able to speak a truth (a mere grain of sand), requires great courage at times, especially when some past story tells you that you do not exist at all (in the eyes of others). Once while teaching, a girl shared with me that in her childhood, her only friends were some stones in her urban back yard of concrete; I was and am still touched by the depth of her solitude and what we shared when she shared.

Their being, born in fire like the stars, is not humiliated as it becomes dust; such profound teaching for we who can walk here for a short time. we, as pebbles (as so beautifully told in this poem you share)

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